They are mostly scared she'd something out in the open, they know the world isn't exactly accepting of us, they don't want the government to take her away. It's different from when I was little, because everyone who saw my eyes dark immediately forgot them, so it's kind of new for them.

Hm. I see. I would suggest that for the time being though, if she is so unstable in matters of control, that they either keep her in lock down in your house and have her try and focus more, though I really doubt that would be effective. Do you think you could get your parents to send her here for a while? It’ll probably be best. Just long enough so that she can learn control. On a side note though, have your parents invest in some yoga tapes—having her learn something to get her mind to focus and clear will be good for the meantime until you come to a decision.